A lot of the times, our thoughts are in conflict with our words. You cannot be thinking of the worst for your flocks and expect to see the best in their lives. This place a demand on you to ensure that the thoughts you allow into your heart agrees with the plan of God for your flocks. This is the more reason why Ps.51:10 remains your greatest prayer points as a husband. It says create in me a clean heart and renew a right spirit within me. You must have the right spirit towards your wife and children if you want to settle for the best and not the less for them.