Main Scriptures: Mark 13:36-37
More Scriptures: Jos.24:15, Mk.9:29, Ps.16:6
You must also watch over the quality of relationships that your wife and children keep. I mean their social lives. Yes, you may be interceding for their spiritual welfare, it is also important for you to guide them in their choice of friends and the relationships that they keep. Your children are your seeds and your wife your covenant partner (Mal.2:14). If anything goes wrong with them, you will be affected. If it is well with them, it will be well with you and if they hurt, you will also be hurt. Jesus Christ was moved with compassion when He saw the people without a teacher. You are to teach your wife and children on the types of things and people that they should allow into their lives. For instance, the Bible warns that bad company corrupts good manners. We are products of influences-the things we watch, read and the people we meet. Don’t forget that your wife and children also bear your name, so it is in your power to help them project your name, positively to the glory of God.
Now, what do you stand to benefit by diligently watching over your flock? Firstly, you enjoy spiritual alertness. What this means is that the fire on your altar will never go off (Lev.6). Because you have now taken responsibility for the lives of flocks, you will continue to press in prayers, fasting and word study towards ensuring that they are better. For as long as Jesus Christ led His disciples, He always separated Himself to pray for them. He was consistently praying for them, as well as teaching them. As it is written in Scriptures, where your treasure is there will your heart be. If truly your wife and children are your treasures, then spiritual engagements would be your delight. Secondly, your wife and children see you as their mentor. This will give the privilege of having to know firsthand where they hurt or what they fear. A lot of the times, our wives and children do not trust us enough to tell us their secrets. Most times, they hide so much information from us. We only hear when the deed may have been committed. When your flocks see you as their mentor, it helps you to take informed decision on their behalf that will minimize their mistakes, because mentors make the journey less difficult. Thirdly, you enjoy peace at old age.
SPIRITUAL EXERCISE
- Father, by Your Spirit, deliver me from spiritual blindness and deafness
- Father, in the Name of Jesus, empower me to be spiritually alert over my wife and children.
- Father, in the Name of Jesus, empower me to overcome every intruder that comes around my family fold.
FAITH CONFESSION
I will keep watch over my wife and children as commanded by God because I want to continue to be a good and godly husband to my flocks in Jesus Name. Amen.
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