As the head of the family and the spiritual leader in your home, it is very important for you to maintain unshakable focus in the administration of your family kingdom. This is so important in the times we are in, when husbands are losing their minds, confused and unable to provide purposeful leadership in the home.
Leave a Commentlet not the sun go down upon your wrath. And what does it mean when the Scripture says when the sun goes down? What this means is that no matter the offence your wife or children may have committed against you, work towards communicating your displeasure to them before the end of that day. Do all that you can to discuss with them what has made you unhappy.
Leave a CommentAs a husband and one who strives to be good and godly, you may have doubted if it is right to be angry when your flock offends you. Well, from Scriptures, it is evident that anger is the natural reaction of a good and godly husband. So, you can be unhappy with certain actions of your wife or children and let them know it. It is not a sin
Leave a CommentBut why must I continue to follow after good with my wife and children? Firstly, you enjoy answered prayers
Leave a CommentAs the shepherd over your flock, you must be patient with the weakness and inadequacies of your sheep. It is a virtue that would help you function as a good and godly husband in your family fold. You must love your wife and children as Jesus will love them, their sins notwithstanding.
Leave a CommentAs the custodian of your flock and the shepherd of your sheep, it is your singular honour and responsibility to take charge and be in command of the family that God has given to you. God has delivered to you a wife and blessed children and He wants you to cultivate, protect and preserve them till He comes.
Leave a CommentIf you treat your child or children dishonourably, you will be shocked at the negative response you will receive from them. You must respect your seed while maintaining your firmness. Do you want your seed to be responsive and not reactive to you? Nurture them in love. Your honour is in service toward your flock.
Leave a CommentAs a husband and the head of your family, who desires to be honoured by his wife and children, you must understand and appreciate that honour is a seed. And it is your responsibility to first sow the seed of honour in the lives of your wife and children before you can reap honour from them
Leave a CommentBecoming a honourable husband is not in meat or drink. It is also not in title. It is in functionality. Your wife and children will not honour you beyond the level of influence and affluence you have commanded over their lives.
Leave a CommentIf anyone ever asked you if you are a wise or foolish husband, your answer would readily be that you are a wise husband. It is the natural response because no head wants to be called a foolish husband. But let us look at our main text today and derive our conclusions from it.
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