One of the quickest ways to gain the confidence, respect and trust of your wife and children and become a positive influence to other husbands is to be able to solve problems or challenges that show up in their lives and your sheepfold. This includes health, spiritual, financial, mental and emotional challenges.
Leave a CommentDo you have a wife who is disobedient to you or you have a wife who has shown you so much disrespect and you are thinking of how best to deal with her? Well, the Scripture in Matt.18:15 provides the answer. And if you would allow the word of God to dwell in you and you allow it to influence your life, you will make the most of your headship and enjoy your rulership over your wife.
Leave a CommentDo you realize that if you can change the way you think about your wife, it will change the way you respond to her. If you stop thinking that your wife is just a mere number or furniture but a woman of honour and valuable treasure, it will affect the way you will treat her. Your response to her needs and expectations and pains will be with compassion and mercy.
Leave a CommentYou occupy a privileged position as the head of your family. And God and your sheep expect so much more from you. God wants you to influence your wife and children for Him. God wants you to lead your sheep to green pastures (Ps.23:1-2).
Leave a CommentAs the head of your family and the spiritual leader in your sheepfold, it is very important that you appreciate that you are not just a leader by heritage but by practical action. God positions you in the midst of your wife and children to help them come out of their pains, discomfort and reproach
Leave a CommentAs the head of your family, it is very important for you to know that in the family setting, there is your place-the position that God has made for you to function in. And that is what God will use to measure your performance. And when you are in the place that God has assigned to you and you carry out the demands that come with that position, then God will bless you and compel your wife and children to honour and reverence you.
Leave a CommentAs the head of your family, have you ever considered where the battle for the rescue and sustenance of your sheepfold meet you? When your wife suddenly begins to misbehave or your children become rebellious to you, where does the battle meet you?
Leave a CommentAs the head of your family, you are the custodian of your wife, children and the family fold. You are in charge of a territory that is enviable and hence attracts opposition from the world, sin and satan.
Leave a CommentGod wants you to cover the ground of your sheepfold. God wants you to arise and challenge every force of darkness that is threatening to steal your family-fold, wife and children from you. You cannot continue to watch and be lame to the dislocations of your family-fold.
Leave a CommentYour wife is God’s prized jewel to you. And God has given her to you exclusively for your own benefit. So, if your wife seems to be having an adulterous relationship with another man or she is hooked on pornography or drugs, fight for her recovery. She is not meant to be in that wrong relationship or substances or habits. She is meant to be with and for you because she belongs to you.
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