God has sent you to love your wife as Christ has loved the church and gave Himself (Eph.5:25, Jn.3:16). So, you are not in the life of your wife to be a burden but a blessing. And that is measured by the quality of your love seeds that you invest in her life.
Leave a CommentYour family members, friends and colleagues may have told you that there is nothing good that will come out of your wife and children. This was the experience of Nehemiah. But as a responsible shepherd, the negative outcomes of your sheep are not as important as rebuilding their lives. You are the change agent God has sent to their lives to repair those areas where they are failing or have failed.
Leave a CommentYour spirituality empowers you to stop every rampaging force of the devil from gaining access to your life and the lives of your wife and children.
Leave a CommentNo husband will ever take possession of his godly inheritance in Christ unless he becomes responsible spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically and financially. A lot of the times as the head of the family, we are quick to claim the promises of God for our positions, we are also quick to remind our flock that we are the head of the family, yet we continue to fail in living up to the expectations of the calling of our office
Leave a CommentYou may have been frustrated like Peter was and concluded that your wife and children are lost cases. Well, don’t wash your nets. Jesus Christ, who is the perfect example of a good and godly husband, has the final key to your victory.
Leave a CommentThe totality of the husbandman is summed in three words- YOUR WORK, YOUR WORD AND YOUR WORTH. As the head of the family, your headship is defined by what you do, what you say and what you are leaving behind-your legacy.
Leave a CommentThe word of God is the compass that you need to navigate the challenges that would come from relating with your wife and children. The word of God provides the answers to all the questions that may come from your flock. The word of God gives you the platform upon which you can develop the weapons you need to dislodge every root of ungodliness in the lives of your sheep.
Leave a CommentYour duty as the head of your family is to fear God and keep all His commandments. The word of God says that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. When you reverence God and obey all His instructions as they concern you as the man, husband and father, then you will be filled with the wisdom of God. And no shepherd operates the wisdom of God and misses his place in sheepfold.
Leave a CommentAs the head of the family, you are ordained by God to provide honorable things not only in the sight of God but also in the sight of men, beginning with your wife and children.
Leave a CommentNo husband has the right to demand for food from his wife when he has not provided the money. No husband has the right to speak out when other fathers are talking when it is his wife who pays the school fees. No husband has the right to claim headship of his home when it is the wife who pays the rent. It doesn’t matter how long you have been in the faith and it matters less how spiritual you are, if you are not the providing for your family, you are not fit and proper to be called the head of the family.
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